There are people who say I am a face book junkie since they always find me online when they log in. That got me thinking it is easy to rush to a conclusion about someone when you do not know anything about them.
Now if that is what we decide to work with, that is conclusion of what you saw about someone that you do not understand.
Yet you do not create time to get to ask them why they do what they do, we might kick out trust and invite rumours and lack of communication to break down relationships as well as friendships.
When someone is a junkie telling them they are a junkie does not help, until you start to do something that will help them look for other things to do that might develop them into what they are great at while earning income from it.
Actions speak louder than words.
Show love and you will notice what you teach them will challenge them to get up try new ideas, plans and goals that might develop their passion, their determination as well as their execution abilities.
When you love or care about someone what you do for them tends to speak louder that what you say.
As a result, when you notice they seem to be junkies focus on turning their weaknesses into their strength by checking on what they are great at, how they might invest towards it and when they might be able to start working on it.
People do not care how much you know until they know how much you care. For someone to open up to you about them self they would have noticed your trustworthy and supportiveness in you.
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