Focus towards passion

We all have something to offer whether in friendships, relationship and everything else we do. People open up to someone they trust someone they know will do their best to help a friend.

When you focus on what you are, able to do for others while no one is doing anything for you, your attitude towards life and challenges will change to inspire you towards what you are able to do and how you are able to achieve it.

At times we want to compare what we have to what others have that we do not have, and at times rush to feel like a failure just because of the standard  we want to use which one might not be able to invest towards because they do not have the capital as well as the passion  for it.

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Be in the other person’s shoes to know what they go through for you

Sometimes what you do not know about a friend might be the key to understanding why they do what they do.

Some friends do their best to make a friendship work through the little they might have.

They focus on what is important and not what they do not have to offer in the friendship. At times, they might visit you when you are not well, while on other times they just visit you because they might have missed talking to you face to face.

When you value people in your life, you will always do your best to be by their side in good or bad times.

Do things that reflect your love, reflect your concern and reflect how much you value what you have as friends.

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Excuses lead nowhere

How often do you give excuses?

What do you achieve through the excuses you give?

Are you happy where you are through the excuses you give? If not happy, what do you plan to do about fixing or changing it?

Giving excuses is the cheapest way of limiting your potential of developing through challenges and delays you might experience as you work on what you might be passionate and determined to achieve.

Next time when you feel like giving an excuse why not try put effort while working on the challenge and delay you might be experiencing.

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Apply what you hear and notice

It is easy to pray for things yet a challenge to do something about avoiding things like flu or being over worked.

If we stop and take note of where we are we might notice that somehow we did not respond to whatever that was happening around us the best way possible.

Always do your best in what you do and kick out regret in the process.

Pray for something; believe it will happen while obeying what you need to do. Application in what you learn. Nothing just happens without you investing towards it some way or another.

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Your actions speak louder than words.

The best way of saying things is leading by example whatever you might be trying to tell someone.

Someone once talked about, "show me do not tell me". How often do you tell people what to do yet you do not show them in case they do not know how to get it done?

How often do you delegate things and not get involved on the progress as well as the development?

I have noticed people who do nothing to assist you as you do what they told you, when there is a mess done, they tend to get angry about what happened while blaming people who would have tried their best to fix the problem or challenge while they did nothing about it.

Do not just say the solution while not being part of it, because someone might not do the right thing since he or she might not have the passion you might have when you got or noticed the solution.

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Act now excuses later

Why do we say I will do that later while watching television or doing something that is not productive?

How are we able to act now about things we would say I would do that later? Are we balancing our time and effort towards what we could be doing progress wise?

What did we replace the moment we started giving excuses about things we could be doing?

The moment we notice what we are able to do while doing something about it that is the moment we learn to say what we are able to do.

As a result, we become action minded while expecting progress or development on what we would have started.

Someone once said a habit develops when you do it daily for 21 days. Excuses or effort takes 21 days to become your area of strength as well as passion.

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Learn from things around you

Many times, we focus on challenges and delays around us while forgetting to learn from them.

Challenges and delays will come and go in our life; the question to ask might be what did you learn through them? How have you progressed on what you are passionate and determined to do through the lessons you have notice through challenges?

You become great at what you decide to do about the passion you have and what you do with what you learn from delays and setbacks you might experience.

Make every challenge and delay you experience inspire you toward what you are passionate and determined to accomplish regardless of what you have or do not have to invest toward what you might be working on.

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Be mature in what you do

If you are in a relationship and all you do is, try to get attention on you from the person who loves you, be careful to push him away with your childishness.

When you try to make a hill from small things that might be happening in your relationship, and you might be holding on to them for a rainy day to cause a fight with him always think about the outcome of your actions.

Will you be able to talk to each other after the choice you make, that is whether to leave him or to hit him or cheat on him? Will you be able to gain the trust in your relationship?

As a result, focus on making your relationship work, focus on making memories worth remembering in your relationship. 

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People change

How often do you hear people say, you have not changed? Sometimes people change in areas you might need to spend a day with them to notice it.

Recently I visited a friend and after two hours of talking and driving around town, she noticed I had not changed.

It got me thinking people change in some areas while their attitude may be does not change. She last saw me about three years ago and some areas I had changed now I.T crazy yet when it comes to keeping me waiting that has not changed, I do not like it and I tend to complain or act on it.

Sometimes change is good when it develops you in areas you want to change or improve on. Three years ago, I did not have my current I.T passion on laptops or phones; I used to have passion for writing only.

With my I.T passion, it has made writing easy that is the reward for some changes; they facilitate what you might be passionate and determined to achieve.

I might look the same as the last time you saw me, talk to me and you might notice how much I have changed.

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When you start something, have passion to complete it.

From experience at times, it is easy to start a project, along the way the passion we started with is gone as a result the project dies.

What are we able to do about maintaining the passion and determination we start with? How are we able to keep it alive? What are we able to do to improve while developing our areas of weakness into our areas of strength?

Think about this, without firewood a fire dies, without passion, determination and execution a plan or dream dies. It is alive while you do something about it.

When you feel you do not have enough passion or determination for what you want to do, look for someone to help you or inspire you while progressing on what you need to do.

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