There are times you might have nothing to
start a project with, nothing to start a business with when you focus is on I
have nothing to offer for this project.
Until you decide to stop search what you
are great at, what little things or small things you might be able to do towards
the plans, dreams and goals you have you
will always develop excuses towards things you could have done something.
Sometimes it is having people who inspire
you, challenge you towards getting up while working on your plans, dreams and
goals into motion.
We all have something to offer the choice
is ours on what we focus on whether excuses or effort towards we are able to
achieve.
Sometimes we might rush to say I wish this
person was my friend based on what you see about them, yet you do not know what
they went through to be the person they are currently.
Until you sit down with them to know more
about them there is no way you are going to know them and care about them,
people tend to say what they think you should be.
Other cases we try to fit with people who
have been through what we have been through or who have an idea of what we
experienced and at times limit people who want to be our friends based on
starting a new friendship.
There is a lady I’m close to. I do not
remember how we started talking all I know is we are so close that when things
are not going well for her she looks for me and we talk, when things are not
going well for me I look for her and we talk. As we got to know each other we
noticed we had some things in common.
Friendships stick together based on what
you focus on.
You know what your friendships focus on
whether sports, going out and you know how you stand there supporting each
other in time of need, time of support and encouragement.