Friendships develop based on what you are prepared to invest towards them

Sometimes we might rush to say I wish this person was my friend based on what you see about them, yet you do not know what they went through to be the person they are currently.

Until you sit down with them to know more about them there is no way you are going to know them and care about them, people tend to say what they think you should be.

Other cases we try to fit with people who have been through what we have been through or who have an idea of what we experienced and at times limit people who want to be our friends based on starting a new friendship.

There is a lady I’m close to. I do not remember how we started talking all I know is we are so close that when things are not going well for her she looks for me and we talk, when things are not going well for me I look for her and we talk. As we got to know each other we noticed we had some things in common.

Friendships stick together based on what you focus on.

You know what your friendships focus on whether sports, going out and you know how you stand there supporting each other in time of need, time of support and encouragement.